Basically we don’t understand the impact of most words we use on our kids, until they start living it.
Einstein’s Family went on a picnic, most of the kids made jest of him, cos he was always quiet.
The mom said to him, you would be a professor.
In fact it’s even an awkward thing to say,
He was suppose to play with the kids.
An average Parent would make him go play with the kids.
But the mom said something that shaped his life and defined him.
Even when his son , was obviously dull and quiet, she didn’t leverage on that to abuse and ridicule his son.
There are some cases that will force you to say , nasty things, and unprintable words, you just have to control yourself.