You Have Values…

You Have Values…

“When There is Hunger in the Jungle, The Lion doesn’t go about feeding with Pigs”.

I said the Above Quote to Drive Home a Point, which you will get to Read.

Yesterday, I was coming back from an Event, I was on a Motocycle, I saw a number of People, standing on one side of the Road.

I was Curious, What’s going on? I asked.

On my way out to the event, I don’t know how A motocycle and A jeep hit themselves, the Next thing I saw, was a Guy on the floor, obviously in pains.
While coming back from the event, before I saw people standing on the road, I saw shattered wind screen glasses, a towing van and a Disfigured ‘Danfo’….

This occasions made me Curious on why there is, these number of people, on the road…

The guy driving the motocyle said;
” Oga , hmmm, na one lady like that ooo, 
Me: Lady? What did she do? 
Motocycle driver: oga , e be like say she collect one man money,
Me: Money? How?
Motocycle guy: yes, as she come for bus stop, na so she start removing her clothes, and wearing it back!
Me: huh? Are you serious?
Motocycle Guy: yes na, na im make people stand they hold am.
The money wey she collect , juju dey am….

I was a Shocked, I didn’t know what to say.

But I feel I need to talk to the Ladies.

What’s Really Going on with us?
Let’s talk….

We are so quick to Fall in love with Men, we Know nothing about!

Forget that crap of Love at First sight.
Its Lust!
Love develops!
You get to see that person often, for you to fall in love.
The only thing that happens at first sight is Attraction.

You are attracted to the person, but you fall in love gradually, when you see the person often and there is some form of interactions.

But the 21st century Ladies, Fall in love straight, without even knowing the name of the person nor what he does (sometimes guys even lie).

They judge their level of love, with what they see at that moment. The type of car , his Attire and how he spend.

They are quick to lay without any form of knowing , they don’t even care if he has any disease, or he is a ritualist, or anything.

They are more concerned about the Money!

You hear them say:

“The money is the main ‘koko’.
“We need to maintain ourselves,
We need to buy clothes, buy make-up kits,
“We need to feel among”…

“There is no Job, the economy is hard, we have to use what we have to get what we want”!

And when the disease comes….

You hear:

“We can always treat ourselves., 
“We get our own ‘juju'(voodoo).
“Nothing dey happen”.

Ha !

In ignorance, they don’t even know, that there are sexually transmitted diseases that ‘Juju’ can’t even cure!
The so called money they have acquired, they would use it, going from one Hospital to another !
Seeking help and medical assistance.

Some have resort to, being the distributor of that disease.
Since they can’t cure it…

They seem happy and classic on the outside, but they are depressed within.

Wheeeeew!!!

A lot of issues!

The Economy is hard quite alright, but there are things you can do with your hands..

You got Brains! 
Don’t limit your brain capability.
You have the power in you!
You can do anything! Am pretty sure of that !
We have hardworking ladies, earning clean cash, buying things they need for themselves, they aint depending on any man.

They call them independent women.

They hate to tie their well being to a man!
They want to be self sufficient.

For the fact their is hunger in the land, shouldn’t make you stoop so low.
You have values!

Refer back to the first quote.
Have you seen a Lion mingling with pigs, Just because , there is Hunger in the Jungle?

Never!
It keeps it cool !

There are a lot of ladies making it, you too can be among!

You can solve a need with your hands and brians.

Don’t put your Life into Jeopardy with diseases, you will live to regret, just because of Money.
Please.

You can make it !!
You got the Brains!
You are super intelligent!
You are endowed with Beauty and Brains.

Humanity Needs you!
You can create solutions to the problems in the society.

Do you know?

A woman developed and created the main materials used in Bullet Proof Vest?
Yes!
She solved a Problem.

Do you also Know?

There is this Young lady in Unilag,
She cooks food for guys in school, deliever to them and gets her pay?
She is making her money.

Its high time you tell the guys! 
You aint created to be devalued, used, abused and Trashed.

There are great potentials in you!
You are capable.

I see you climbing heights!

Cheers.
Ema Bountiful.
2015

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Loosing Friends

One fact that would always happen whether we Like it or Not is- We must loose Friends.

No matter how glued or how permanent they seem to appear, we must definitely loose them.

The day I realised this sad fact, I began to loose more friends.

Weird isn’t it!

The friendship doesn’t end abruptly but its a gradual process that you may either notice or won’t even notice.

As we grow, our taste and desires change!

So it applies to our relationship with people.

We loose friends in many ways;

1) By either misplacing their contacts or they misplacing ours.

2) Relocating or Change of environment.

3) Transfer ( due to work or schooling)

4) Death

5) Change of character!

With my study, I have been able to also find out, that most times we are either sad or not sad it happens.

But the reality we must face is- we are definitely going to loose friends.
But the weird part is how, its going to happen.

Their is a particular saying I Love so much and it says-

” Mind how you end your friendship”

Some people end their friendship in bitterness and strife.

Some end theirs in happiness and peace.

I would recommend the later;
Reason is;
Life is a journey,
Wish others well,
We are pilgrims on earth.

And lastly.

Don’t get so glued to people who have negative influence in your life.

Don’t waste time to end the friendship.

Be wise.

Don’t also get so glued too with positive influence, they would get bored of you and start behaving unfriendly to you.

Bottom line is- Know when to stay and Know when to quit.

Be Blessed!

#friendship #relationship #facts #people

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LIFE ESSENTIALS

A professor stood before his philosophy class and had some items in front of him.

When the class began, he wordlessly picked up a very large and empty mayonnaise jar and proceeded to fill it with golf balls .

He then asked the students if the jar was full. They agreed that it was.

The professor then picked up a box of pebbles and poured them into the jar. He shook the jar lightly. The pebbles rolled into the open areas between the golf balls.

He then asked the students again if the jar was full. They agreed it was.
The professor next picked up a box of sand and poured it into the jar. Of course, the sand filled up everything else. He asked once more if the jar was full.

The students responded with an unanimous “yes.”

The professor then produced two cups of coffee from under the table and poured the entire contents into the jar effectively filling the empty space between the sand. The students laughed.

“Now,” said the professor as the laughter subsided, “I want you to recognize that this jar represents your life.

The golf balls are the important things–your family, your children, your health, your friends and your favorite passions–and if everything else was lost and only they remained, your life would still be full.

The pebbles are the other things that matter like your job, your house and your car.

The sand is everything else–the small stuff. “If you put the sand into the jar first,” he continued, “there is no room for the pebbles or the golf balls.

The same goes for life. If you spend all your time and energy on the small stuff you will never have room for the things that are important to you.

“Pay attention to the things that are critical to your happiness. Play with your children. Take time to get medical checkups. Take your spouse out to dinner. Play another 18. There will always be time to clean the house and fix the disposal.

Take care of the golf balls first –the things that really matter. Set your priorities. The rest is just sand…”

One of the students raised her hand and inquired what the coffee represented. The professor smiled.

“I’m glad you asked. It just goes to show you that no matter how full your life may seem, there’s always room for a couple of cups of coffee with a friend”.

Excerpt from More.ng

Have a wonderful day..

Remain blessed.

Start living.

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Reality and Imagination

Many quotes have been compiled by people that imagination looks real.
But truth is, reality and imagination have a lot of difference.
For example- I can tell you a lot of story about Lion; the beauty and beast inside a Lion, its character and description.
I can go on and on and on to tell you everything about Lion – that’s Imagination….
But when you meet Lion face to face, and survive after that encounter…. Hahaha..
My oh my..
You survive!
The way you will describe or talk about a Lion would be different from someone who read about Lions.
They can never be the same story.

Yea …….
That’s Life for you…
Imagination is not far from reality but reality is far from imagination.

Apply this in every aspect of Life and have a better understanding.

I would give you an assignment–

Think about the bomb and rocket launch happening in Isreal and Gaza.
With the above illustration about Lion, apply it.
You would have a better picture and feeling of the heat in Gaza and Isreal.

Have a nice day!