Respect to Women.

Respect to Women.

To be a woman is not about inflating body parts and undergoing surgeries !

You are 1000000 million miles far from reality!

There is a hospital behind my window.
Where women give birth.

Most times am awakened by a loud scream or If am awake, I would hear loud screams , most times 2 or 3am , sometimes 4 or 5am.

Women in labour and excruciating pains.

Some scream for hours trying to Push .
And the voices are not bedroom voice.
Thick and loud.

When they start screaming, you will be scared, they don’t even mind the time.

Ha ! What A Pain!

There was a day , one woman was in labour and her scream was loud, I was scared!
Am like , what the heck!
I was expecting the baby, as if am the dad!
All I wanted to hear is the cry from the baby!
The baby finally came out, Thank Goodness GOD !
The baby didn’t cry immediately, I heard some beatings(I have sharp ears).
Then the baby finally cried!
Awwww !
I imagined the beauty of it !
I said to myself, boy that’s how you came into this world .
That’s how the journey started for everyone.

Am appalled when frustrated and fed up men, wake up one day, dress up in a man’s cloth, contact a doctor, withdraw money from his account, pay for surgery and boom !

He starts flaunting inflated chest, shaking inflated behind and he calls himself a woman, and you accept it, saying he is brave?
Are you really okay?
Like Okay?

Where is your pride of womanhood?
How on earth are you supporting an imposter, a fraud and frustrated man, who wants to be accepted by female folks , by all means possible?

Oh Lord bring back the sense of reasoning and discernment!

Being a woman is more than physical appearance.
There is a purpose in being a woman.
Women are created with values.
Designed in a special way!

Please shove that crap, of a man becoming a woman as bravery into septic tank!
That’s were craps relax.

No atom of bravery in it, its a deception, an alternative for inferior, frustrated and fed up men, seeking recognition and relevance!

Dazzol !!

And men!
Please I beg you!
Appreciate and support your woman!
My brother e no easy too for them oo!
Please pamper your pregnant wife,
You know how it feels, drinking heavy and eating excess, you are so much in pains until you ease out, that’s how it is for them too!

Bros na 9 Months oooo, yours na only one day!
Biko ejoor please!
Help out!
If it means having a helper for that period , biko find !
Cook the soup, pound the yam, wash the clothes, mob the floor, no big deal in doing this things, it won’t readjust your first name, support her, na una two play the match, so no leave am suffer alone!
Thanks a bunch!

A big Shout out to every Proud Woman.
You girls are Heroines
Maximum Respect!
You girls rock!

To be a Woman is not a Day Job!

And to the expecting Mothers especially first timers,
I pray for more strength, its not easy truly, I feel for you sincerely.
But my Prayer is, You will scale through, and you will deliver in Peace and Ease.

Peace and Cheers !

Ema Bountiful © 2015.




There are so many Traditional practices that are unsavoury, unhealthy and needs to be addressed.
Surprisingly, a look into these said Institutionalized acts are said to have been introduced by women.

Why do women suffer unjustly?
Why are the ills of this world blamed on them?
Why are women subject of abuse and object of abuse?

Can’t just understand.

Weird as it may sound;
Do you know that Women Institutionalized this act ; A Woman Drinking the water washed off from a her husband dead body to Prove Innocence.
Shaving off the hair of the Woman, wearing a Black Dress for a Period of Time, Sleeping on the floor for months.

This Barbaric act Have been practiced for so long.

And its Such an amazing thing that people who promote culture, people who believed that Christianity should be removed and replaced with Tradition accept and buy this Barbaric act against Women. 

Infact Christianity made away most of the Barbaric Traditions, Practiced and Inflicted on Women.
They played a significant role.

Notwithstanding, my point of This Article, is , To appeal to Most Women, who still See the Need to Practice this Act, to do away with it.

Its not only Evil but inhumane.

Why Punish Someone for another one’s Death just to Prove a Point?

Don’t get it Twisted, Men endorsed this, when women brought this as an avenue to exonerate  themselves and to prove innocency.

This is running into Generations and the Act is being Propagated.

I appeal to Women to have A collective Voice and Say Enough is Enough!

This Belief System needs to be abolished!
The Government Needs to come in and enforce the Abolishing of this Barbaric act against women!

And weird as it may seem, women have been the enemy to themselves, for centuries and they still cry, being oppressed by Male folks.
Don’t get it Twisted, men have also been in the Picture of Endorsing this.

So basically, Let’s quit the Blame game!
Let the Men Join the Women in Pushing for this Act to be totally and absolutely abolished!

The NGOs are doing their Bit but they Need More Voice From the People and The Government……

Let the women be there for each other not against each other.
Let the women be their sisters keeper.

This discussion shouldn’t stop and end on this blog but let it continue in our daily discussion.

I believe as Miss/Mrs A enlightens Miss/Mrs B one by one we would Change this system and restore The Pride of Womanhood.

We can , We should and  We will.
For the peace and justice for our Future Girl Child.


Emmanuel Iwuchukwu © 2015.

Your Words Your Child.

Your Words Your Child.

Basically we don’t understand the impact of most words we use on our kids, until they start living it.

Einstein’s Family went on a picnic, most of the kids made jest of him, cos he was always quiet.
The mom said to him, you would be a professor.

In fact it’s even an awkward thing to say,
He was suppose to play with the kids.
An average Parent would make him go play with the kids.

But the mom said something that shaped his life and defined him.

Speak Life….

Even when his son , was obviously dull and quiet, she didn’t leverage on that to abuse and ridicule his son.

There are some cases that will force you to say , nasty things,  and unprintable words, you just have to control yourself.

Speak Life.


Creative Thinking….

Many hundreds of years ago in a small Italian town, a merchant had the misfortune of owing a large sum of money to the moneylender.

The moneylender, who was old and ugly, fancied the merchant’s beautiful daughter so he proposed a bargain.

He said he would forgo the merchant’s debt if he could marry the daughter. Both the merchant and his daughter were horrified by the proposal.

The moneylender told them that he would put a black pebble and a white pebble into an empty bag.

The girl would then have to pick one pebble from the bag. If she picked the black pebble, she would become the moneylender’s wife and her father’s debt would be forgiven. If she picked the white pebble she need not marry him and her father’s debt would still be forgiven. But if she refused to pick a pebble, her father would be thrown into jail.

They were standing on a pebble strewn path in the merchant’s garden. As they talked, the moneylender bent over to pick up two pebbles.

As he picked them up, the sharp-eyed girl noticed that he had picked up two black pebbles and put them into the bag. He then asked the girl to pick her pebble from the bag.

What would you have done if you were the girl? If you had to advise her, what would you have told her? Careful analysis would produce three possibilities:

1. The girl should refuse to take a pebble.

2. The girl should show that there were two black pebbles in the bag and expose the moneylender as a cheat.

3. The girl should pick a black pebble and sacrifice herself in order to save her father from his debt and imprisonment.

The above story is used with the hope that it will make us appreciate the difference between lateral and logical thinking.

The girl put her hand into the moneybag and drew out a pebble. Without looking at it, she fumbled and let it fall onto the pebble-strewn path where it immediately became lost among all the other pebbles.

“Oh, how clumsy of me,” she said. “But never mind, if you look into the bag for the one that is left, you will be able to tell which pebble I picked.”

Since the remaining pebble is black, it must be assumed that she had picked the white one.

And since the moneylender dared not admit his dishonesty, the girl changed what seemed an impossible situation into an advantageous one.

MORAL: Most complex problems do have a solution, sometimes we have to think about them in a different way.

Excerpt from


A Woman

A Woman

                     “A woman is the full circle.  Within her is the power to
                                      create, nurture, and transform.”


                                     — Diane Mariechild, author of “Mother of Wit”.