Respect to Women.

To be a woman is not about inflating body parts and undergoing surgeries !

You are 1000000 million miles far from reality!

There is a hospital behind my window.
Where women give birth.

Most times am awakened by a loud scream or If am awake, I would hear loud screams , most times 2 or 3am , sometimes 4 or 5am.

Women in labour and excruciating pains.

Some scream for hours trying to Push .
And the voices are not bedroom voice.
Thick and loud.

When they start screaming, you will be scared, they don’t even mind the time.

Ha ! What A Pain!

There was a day , one woman was in labour and her scream was loud, I was scared!
Am like , what the heck!
I was expecting the baby, as if am the dad!
All I wanted to hear is the cry from the baby!
The baby finally came out, Thank Goodness GOD !
The baby didn’t cry immediately, I heard some beatings(I have sharp ears).
Then the baby finally cried!
Awwww !
I imagined the beauty of it !
I said to myself, boy that’s how you came into this world .
That’s how the journey started for everyone.

Am appalled when frustrated and fed up men, wake up one day, dress up in a man’s cloth, contact a doctor, withdraw money from his account, pay for surgery and boom !

He starts flaunting inflated chest, shaking inflated behind and he calls himself a woman, and you accept it, saying he is brave?
Are you really okay?
Like Okay?

Where is your pride of womanhood?
How on earth are you supporting an imposter, a fraud and frustrated man, who wants to be accepted by female folks , by all means possible?

Damn!
Oh Lord bring back the sense of reasoning and discernment!

Being a woman is more than physical appearance.
There is a purpose in being a woman.
Women are created with values.
Designed in a special way!

Please shove that crap, of a man becoming a woman as bravery into septic tank!
That’s were craps relax.

No atom of bravery in it, its a deception, an alternative for inferior, frustrated and fed up men, seeking recognition and relevance!

Dazzol !!

And men!
Please I beg you!
Appreciate and support your woman!
My brother e no easy too for them oo!
Please pamper your pregnant wife,
You know how it feels, drinking heavy and eating excess, you are so much in pains until you ease out, that’s how it is for them too!

Bros na 9 Months oooo, yours na only one day!
Biko ejoor please!
Help out!
If it means having a helper for that period , biko find !
Cook the soup, pound the yam, wash the clothes, mob the floor, no big deal in doing this things, it won’t readjust your first name, support her, na una two play the match, so no leave am suffer alone!
Thanks a bunch!

A big Shout out to every Proud Woman.
You girls are Heroines
Maximum Respect!
You girls rock!

To be a Woman is not a Day Job!

And to the expecting Mothers especially first timers,
I pray for more strength, its not easy truly, I feel for you sincerely.
But my Prayer is, You will scale through, and you will deliver in Peace and Ease.
Amen!

Peace and Cheers !

Ema Bountiful © 2015.

You Have Values…

“When There is Hunger in the Jungle, The Lion doesn’t go about feeding with Pigs”.

I said the Above Quote to Drive Home a Point, which you will get to Read.

Yesterday, I was coming back from an Event, I was on a Motocycle, I saw a number of People, standing on one side of the Road.

I was Curious, What’s going on? I asked.

On my way out to the event, I don’t know how A motocycle and A jeep hit themselves, the Next thing I saw, was a Guy on the floor, obviously in pains.
While coming back from the event, before I saw people standing on the road, I saw shattered wind screen glasses, a towing van and a Disfigured ‘Danfo’….

This occasions made me Curious on why there is, these number of people, on the road…

The guy driving the motocyle said;
” Oga , hmmm, na one lady like that ooo, 
Me: Lady? What did she do? 
Motocycle driver: oga , e be like say she collect one man money,
Me: Money? How?
Motocycle guy: yes, as she come for bus stop, na so she start removing her clothes, and wearing it back!
Me: huh? Are you serious?
Motocycle Guy: yes na, na im make people stand they hold am.
The money wey she collect , juju dey am….

I was a Shocked, I didn’t know what to say.

But I feel I need to talk to the Ladies.

What’s Really Going on with us?
Let’s talk….

We are so quick to Fall in love with Men, we Know nothing about!

Forget that crap of Love at First sight.
Its Lust!
Love develops!
You get to see that person often, for you to fall in love.
The only thing that happens at first sight is Attraction.

You are attracted to the person, but you fall in love gradually, when you see the person often and there is some form of interactions.

But the 21st century Ladies, Fall in love straight, without even knowing the name of the person nor what he does (sometimes guys even lie).

They judge their level of love, with what they see at that moment. The type of car , his Attire and how he spend.

They are quick to lay without any form of knowing , they don’t even care if he has any disease, or he is a ritualist, or anything.

They are more concerned about the Money!

You hear them say:

“The money is the main ‘koko’.
“We need to maintain ourselves,
We need to buy clothes, buy make-up kits,
“We need to feel among”…

“There is no Job, the economy is hard, we have to use what we have to get what we want”!

And when the disease comes….

You hear:

“We can always treat ourselves., 
“We get our own ‘juju'(voodoo).
“Nothing dey happen”.

Ha !

In ignorance, they don’t even know, that there are sexually transmitted diseases that ‘Juju’ can’t even cure!
The so called money they have acquired, they would use it, going from one Hospital to another !
Seeking help and medical assistance.

Some have resort to, being the distributor of that disease.
Since they can’t cure it…

They seem happy and classic on the outside, but they are depressed within.

Wheeeeew!!!

A lot of issues!

The Economy is hard quite alright, but there are things you can do with your hands..

You got Brains! 
Don’t limit your brain capability.
You have the power in you!
You can do anything! Am pretty sure of that !
We have hardworking ladies, earning clean cash, buying things they need for themselves, they aint depending on any man.

They call them independent women.

They hate to tie their well being to a man!
They want to be self sufficient.

For the fact their is hunger in the land, shouldn’t make you stoop so low.
You have values!

Refer back to the first quote.
Have you seen a Lion mingling with pigs, Just because , there is Hunger in the Jungle?

Never!
It keeps it cool !

There are a lot of ladies making it, you too can be among!

You can solve a need with your hands and brians.

Don’t put your Life into Jeopardy with diseases, you will live to regret, just because of Money.
Please.

You can make it !!
You got the Brains!
You are super intelligent!
You are endowed with Beauty and Brains.

Humanity Needs you!
You can create solutions to the problems in the society.

Do you know?

A woman developed and created the main materials used in Bullet Proof Vest?
Yes!
She solved a Problem.

Do you also Know?

There is this Young lady in Unilag,
She cooks food for guys in school, deliever to them and gets her pay?
She is making her money.

Its high time you tell the guys! 
You aint created to be devalued, used, abused and Trashed.

There are great potentials in you!
You are capable.

I see you climbing heights!

Cheers.
Ema Bountiful.
2015